(chapter 1) I think outsiders are just people who like to do their own thing. Everyone is an outsider to someone else. You can't force Christian on anyone. If someone doesn't want to be christian they don't have to be and thats just the way that they want to live. I don't think there is any way to prepare anyone for not being accepted or not accepted as a christian in their social circle. I don't think many kids care anymore whether or not someone is christian or not. Its not as much of a factor in becoming friends with someone or not.